NEW YORK — This past August, in Murfreesboro, Tenn., the drag queen Sasha Velour shook the hands of a pair of anti-drag activists, as TV cameras recorded. Velour was dressed in head-to-toe silver, looking like an art deco skyscraper, with red lips, contoured cheeks and catlike eyeliner. The activists — a bearded father and his teenage daughter — called her “sir.” They said that “God created man with a penis” and “woman with a vagina.” They referenced the Bible and referred to “the LGBTQ religion” as a “cult.” They told her: “Something’s wrong with you.”