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No longer forgotten: Honoring unclaimed children in Des Moines

No longer forgotten: Honoring unclaimed children in Des Moines
Someone born in 19-45 would turn 79 this year. But for some who died young and did not have family, that's nearly 80 years without closure. That's what happened to a Des Moines newborn who ádied... nearly 8 decades ago. unclaimed ever since. and... there are others. from 1946... 52... 53... 59. the list is long. but... no longer forgotten. LanAe Strovers - Hamilton's Funeral Home @ :20 - :24 Ben Hengesteg - Iles Funeral Home @ 1:42 - 1:46 Karen Kuntz - Volunteer @ 2:36 - 2:40 Dennis Allen - The Final Salute @ 3:01 - 3:05 OC: NO LONGER ALONE @ 3:15 TAKE PKG STEP INSIDE HAMILTON'S FUNERAL HOME... AND THE WEIGHT OF WHAT HAPPENS HERE... áHITS YOU. IT'S WHERE HUNDREDS HAVE HAD LOVED ONES SAY áFINAL GOODBYES. OR... IN áTHEIRá CASE... <<WE'LL SEE THE URNS ON THE TABLE>> FINALLY felt áLOVED... FOR THE very áFIRST TIME. <<BEN ASKS LANAE>> Is this the first time for these kids that someone has cared about them? <<LANAE STROVERS ANSWERS>> "I would say probably so. It might be the first time that their names are ever said aloud. You know, a lot of these children weren't even given a first name." THEIR AGES... GENDER... AND CIRCUMSTANCES... DIFFER. <<LANAE STROVERS - HAMILTON'S FUNERAL HOME>> "It's hard to group them all in to one <<BUTT WITH - 01:22:18>> "And we don't always know their story." BUT LANAE STROVERS KNOWS... IT COULD'VE BEEN HERS TOO. <<LANAE STROVERS - HAMILTON'S FUNERAL HOME>> "I was adopted. My mom was a young college student and went into the emergency room and went into labor and she had not told anybody about her pregnancy. So, I think what would've happened If I had died at birth." NOW... SHE'S WORKING WITH A DEDICATED BATCH OF VOLUNTEERS... TO SCOUR THE DEPTHS OF LOCAL FUNERAL HOMES... FOR ALL WHO áWERE FORGOTTEN. <<LANAE STROVERS - HAMILTON'S FUNERAL HOME>> "This is an everybody project." áTOGETHERá... IDENTIFYING HUNDREDS... INCLUDING SEVERAL BABIES... RIGHT HERE IN CENTRAL IOWA. <<LANAE STROVERS - HAMILTON'S FUNERAL HOME>> "I really had to sit and think is this something we want to invite people to, is this something we want to make public? But then I thought we have to. Because what if other funeral homes are sitting on the same thing and don't know what to do? TURNS OUT... THEY'D WANT TO HELP. <<BEN HENGESTEGEN - FUNERAL DIR, CREMATORY MGR; ILES>> "It was probably early August last summer." BEN HENGESTEGEN IS STROVER'S COUNTERPART AT áISLES FUNERAL HOME. HE SAYS... áAFTER STROVERS REACHED OUT REGARDING THE CHILDREN... THEY GOT TO WORK. <<BEN HENGESTEGEN - FUNERAL DIR, CREMATORY MGR; ILES>> "You know, sometimes families wanted to pick up, never did. Sometimes there are people that don't have anybody to claim them. So, it was a matter of doing a lot of research and finding those records and copying those and making sure that everything was in order that matched the remains that we had in storage." TEAMWORK... TURNED UP 37. 12 OF THEM... SITTING ON THE SHELF... FOR MORE THAN 40 YEARS. <<BEN HENGESTEGEN - FUNERAL DIR, CREMATORY MGR; ILES>> "It certainly tugs at one's heartstrings when you think that we're talking about infants and children that. you know, we're never claimed throughout these years." THAT'S WHAT CALLED VOLUNTEER KAREN KUNTZ -- TO GET INVOLVED. <<KAREN KUNTZ - VOLUNTEER>> "I've always had a passion for unclaimed people." FIRST... BACK IN 2018 WHEN HAMILTON'S UNCOVERED... <<KAREN KUNTZ - VOLUNTEER>> "We did 6 babies." AND THEN FOR NEARLY 40 MORE THIS YEAR. KUNTZ... HER HUSBAND STEVE... AND FOLKS FROM HER CHURCH... HELPED MAKE LITTLE URNS... AND WRAPPED THEM IN THESE small swathes OF BLANKET. CHERISHING THEM. <<KAREN KUNTZ - VOLUNTEER>> "So, they're all in our house and they're all just very loved. We just kind of keep them and protect them." UNTIL THEY'RE BURIED HERE IN MAY... WITH THE HANDFUL OF OTHERS FROM 2018 . <<DENNIS ALLEN - THE FINAL SALUTE>> "We had a friend donate the space." AT AVON CEMETERY... WHERE THE COUPLE WHO RUNS IT... AND HAS WORKED SIDE BY SIDE WITH STROVERS ON THIS PROJECT... SAYS... THEY'LL áALWAYS BE WATCHED OVER. <<DENNIS ALLEN - THE FINAL SALUTE>> "We had two people who wanted to be buried near the kids because they really loved kids. And so we kind of look at it as a guardianship that they wanted to be by them." AFTER DECADES... THESE 3-DOZEN LITTLE ONE'S... WILL 'FINALLY' BE LAID TO REST. AND ARE áFINALLY... NO LONGER ALONE. They'll honor the unclaimed children on May 18th at Avon Cemetery. Everyone is welcome to attend. And... nearly everyone involved in áthisá project is a part of the non-profit 'The Final Salute.
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No longer forgotten: Honoring unclaimed children in Des Moines
Step inside Hamilton's Funeral Home and the weight of what happens there hits you. Thousands have had loved ones say final goodbyes. And, for nearly three dozen young children, they're finally feeling loved. "It might be the first time that their names are ever said aloud. You know, a lot of these children weren't even given a first name," Hamilton's Funeral Director Lanae Strovers says. The ages, gender and circumstances differ. "It's hard to group them all in to one ... and we don't always know their story," Strovers says. What they do know is the unclaimed remains of these children, many of them babies, have been sitting on the shelves of local funeral homes for years. Some of them, decades. "I really had to sit, and think is this something we want to invite people to, is this something we want to make public? But then I thought have to. Because what if other funeral homes are sitting on the same thing and don't know what to do," Strovers recalls.Turns out, they'd want to help. Ben Hengesteg is Strover's counterpart at Iles Funeral Home in Des Moines. He says after Strovers reached out regarding the children, they got to work. "You know, sometimes families wanted to pick up, never did. Sometimes there are people that don't have anybody to claim them. So, it was a matter of doing a lot of research and finding those records, copying those, and making sure that everything was in order that matched the remains that we had in storage," Hengesteg says. Teamwork turned up 37 of them. And on May 18, they'll be given a proper sendoff at Avon Cemetery in Des Moines. Watch the video above for the full story.To find out more about that ceremony and the work the non-profit group 'The Final Salute' is doing to give these kids, Veterans and other civilians who have gone unclaimed a proper burial visit: https://www.facebook.com/thefinalsalute.» Download the free KCCI app to get updates on the go: Apple | Google PlayGet the latest headlines from KCCI

Step inside Hamilton's Funeral Home and the weight of what happens there hits you. Thousands have had loved ones say final goodbyes. And, for nearly three dozen young children, they're finally feeling loved.

"It might be the first time that their names are ever said aloud. You know, a lot of these children weren't even given a first name," Hamilton's Funeral Director Lanae Strovers says.

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The ages, gender and circumstances differ.

"It's hard to group them all in to one ... and we don't always know their story," Strovers says.

What they do know is the unclaimed remains of these children, many of them babies, have been sitting on the shelves of local funeral homes for years.

Some of them, decades.

"I really had to sit, and think is this something we want to invite people to, is this something we want to make public? But then I thought have to. Because what if other funeral homes are sitting on the same thing and don't know what to do," Strovers recalls.

Turns out, they'd want to help. Ben Hengesteg is Strover's counterpart at Iles Funeral Home in Des Moines. He says after Strovers reached out regarding the children, they got to work.

"You know, sometimes families wanted to pick up, never did. Sometimes there are people that don't have anybody to claim them. So, it was a matter of doing a lot of research and finding those records, copying those, and making sure that everything was in order that matched the remains that we had in storage," Hengesteg says.

Teamwork turned up 37 of them. And on May 18, they'll be given a proper sendoff at Avon Cemetery in Des Moines.

Watch the video above for the full story.

To find out more about that ceremony and the work the non-profit group 'The Final Salute' is doing to give these kids, Veterans and other civilians who have gone unclaimed a proper burial visit: https://www.facebook.com/thefinalsalute.

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