I was sprawled on the living room floor the other night, flipping through an old National Geographic while singer Sarah McLachlan’s benignly soothing music played in the background.
Not my choice, but pretty good. Then my sweetheart Wylie grabbed another CD and popped it into the Bose music machine.
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