TV Watch: ‘Farrah’s Story’

NBC Universal A scene from “Farrah’s Story.”

“Farrah’s Story” was awful.

It was awful not because it was a harrowing portrait of Farrah Fawcett‘s fight with cancer; it was awful because it was an exploitative portrait of a celebrity’s fight with cancer.

On Friday, NBC took Ms. Fawcett’s candid video diary and allowed it to be packaged as a generic VH1 “Behind the Music” biography – – maudlin music, gauzy slow-motion film, and pseudo-revealing interviews with friends, coworkers, doctors and hairdressers reminiscing about a former star.

Ryan O’Neal, Ms. Fawcett’s longtime companion, is devotedly at her side for much of the time, but his preening actor’s vanity keeps creeping into the frame. At one point, after one German doctor gives Ms. Fawcett good news (shortlived, as it turned out), a relieved Mr. O’Neal says, “I thought I was in another ‘Love Story’ movie.”

It was brave of Ms. Fawcett, 62, to invite cameras into her exam rooms, surgical procedures and her struggles with nausea, pain and hair loss. She wears eye makeup even when receiving painful laser treatments for her liver, but doesn’t hesitate to take off her wool cap and reveal her shaved head after radiation destroyed her famous blond mane. In one of the final scenes, her son Redmond, who is in prison on drug charges, shuffles into her bedroom wearing his L.A. County prison shirt and climbs on to her bed beside her to say goodbye.

It was clear that Ms. Fawcett wanted to take back her story from the paparazzi and the celebrity magazines and have some control over its telling. Yet sadly, her film stylistically mirrors some of the worst excesses of our tabloid culture.

And like many cancer patients, she says she wants to find larger purpose to her suffering.

At the end of the program, the actress says she made the film to alert public attention to an overlooked disease. “Why isn’t there more research done on certain types of cancer?” she asks. “And why doesn’t our healthcare system embrace alternative treatments that have proven successful in other countries?”

The film isn’t as nearly as brave or as serious-minded as its cancer-stricken subject. Alana Stewart, Ms. Fawcett’s close friend, held the camera at some of the most difficult private moments, and comes off commendably as a valiant, reliable pillar of support to the actress. But none of the doctors, advisers or medical experts interviewed throughout the two-hour special explains that one of the most common risk factors for anal cancer is human papilloma virus, and that the HPV vaccine can prevent not just cervical cancer but also anal cancer.

Nobody mentions anal pap smears, which researchers increasingly cite as a way to screen for cell changes that lead to anal cancer. The film also doesn’t make clear that in many cases, anal cancer can be treated and cured. (The American Cancer Society estimates that there will be 5,290 new cases of anal cancer in 2009 and 710 deaths.)

And Ms. Fawcett’s reliance on European alternative treatments is more poignant than persuasive. Her exuberant German doctors seem far too giddily invested in their visiting patient’s fame to give her realistic prognoses — or even dissuade her from flying home to Los Angeles before she was strong enough to travel.

During one painful procedure, a German doctor asks Ms. Fawcett to name her best work. The actress mentions a few of the films she made that were critically acclaimed, including “Extremities” and the television movie “The Burning Bed.” The doctor reminds her about her 1970s television show “Charlie’s Angels.” Ms. Fawcett replies weakly, “Well, I only did that for one year.”

Those trips evidently gave Ms. Fawcett hope and lots of encouragement and personal attention, but the film doesn’t shed much light on how much or whether the treatments actually helped.

“I’m the girl who always believed in change,” Ms. Fawcett says, explaining her determination to fight her disease by all and any means necessary.

She deserves a different, less exploitative television tribute.

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I watched the show last night, and felt the same way. I was not sure what the point of it was. It certainly showed her suffering. I wish it would have focused on her early symptoms and detection, so others could learn from it. In one interview Ryan O’Neil stated that Farrah ignored symptoms of rectal bleeding, and went to a chiropractor for it instead of a physician. I also wish the HPV connection was mentioned. I wonder if the producers thought it taboo because HPV is sexually transmitted. Not the image they were going for maybe? I hope Farrah goes peacefully and pain free in her last days.
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Thank you Farrah, Ryan and Alana for sharing this story. I had never heard of anal cancer before and now from my own research I know so much more. I did not know much about the alternative approaches and now I know so much more about this too.

This is the story that Farrah wanted portrayed and deserved. She did not care what the NYTimes or the other media wanted. It is her story and was hers to tell. It is of no concern to me what anyone but Farrah wanted in her final months. Bravo for her.

“And why doesn’t our healthcare system embrace alternative treatments that have proven successful in other countries.”

Why? Because they don’t cure, as evidenced by Ms. Fawcett’s case. I realize she was desperate, but going to Europe for “alternative treatments” was a bad decision.

As i watched this “documentary”, I felt a strange mix of empathy and discomfort that was not able to articulate. You are absolutely right. While the subject is quite serious, the style in which it was told is exploitive, just like the “worst excessiveness of our tabloid culture.” I pity Ms. Fawcett and Mr. O’Neal on several levels.

Samantha Hurst PhD May 16, 2009 · 10:39 am

I am disappointed to see “Farrah’s Story” being critiqued as if to say there is a “right” way or “wrong” way for a person to present their end of life story…. or the choices that one makes to seek help and remission for their illness.

I admire Ms. Fawcett’s grace in exploring and attempting to make sense of this obviously painful [literally and emotionally] time in her life.

While her doctors in the U.S. seem bemused and somewhat embarassed to be filmed while giving Farrah Fawcett medical recommendations, what struck me about this made-for-TV-documentary is how often Ms. Fawcett ignored the clinical advice and decided on what treatments – and where – to receive. She refused a colostomy although her doctors recommended it. She traveled to Germany for treatments to her liver but was advised not to travel immediately after the procedure, due to the stress of air travel and cabin pressure changes which might affect the healing process… but she did elect to leave the country immediately after surgery to go back to the US (multiple times).

One of the points of this film should be: if you’re not a physician, don’t “design” your own treatments. Listen to the oncologists who have seen 1,000 of cases and take their advice.

It was brave of Farrah Fawcett to do this, and it is sad to see anyone dwindle from the ravages of cancer and cancer treatments. If only a few people get themselves screened for anal or other types of cancers, then her efforts were worth something.

Survivors daughter May 16, 2009 · 10:41 am

I find this entire review to be disgusting. My mother battled cancer, and watching Farrah’s story reminded me of how much my own mother has gone through. I can’t imagine having the fight of your life going on while papparazzi swarm and feed off of you. What I saw was a beautiful, open look at Farrah’s life and fight for the past couple of years. It stripped away the celebrity and I believe accomplished exactly what she intended.
This was not a PSA, nor was it intended to be. It did bring awareness and no doubt will cause people to do further research on their own and promote regular check-ups. I was cheered by how Farrah is surrounded by a close-knit group of those who love her most. Ryan is only being completely candid, and I wish my mother had had a partner as dedicated by her side. Many people cannot deal with the ongoing cancer treatments/battles of their loved ones, and not everyone has a rock to lean on. Shame on this reviewer for not getting it.

I tuned in briefly, but was so aware of the cameras and how much cameras can change behavior, it all seemed more artificial than informative or revealing or touching. The camera is a selective filter no matter who is holding it. A cancer patient’s ‘reality show’ struck me as demeaning and – I’m sorry – ego-ridden. I sometimes felt that someone was actually directing the scenes. Ms. Fawcett’s fame must, I know, be taken into consideration, but isn’t there also room for dignity?

I send my best wishes to Ms. Fawcett and her family as these days pass.

Farrah Fawcett seems to have traded in being exploited by the tabloids to being exploited by her friends and the mainstream media. As much as I wanted to believe Ryan O’Neal was truly there for her, after all his interviews this week and his “lines” in the documentary, he seemed more about promoting his emotions than anything else. I suppose these people are all that Farrah has at this point. Sadly, fame and fortune does not attract people who always have your best interest at heart.
As for the show’s content, it was more about her personal journey and feelings than it was about science. For anyone who has not been around cancer treatment it should be an eye opener of what a hell ride treatment can be. Maybe that is enough to make folks seek out preventative acts like the vaccine and pap tests.
I think Farrah was well meaning, but likely misdirected by her friends and associates. I do hope she has total control over her final wishes.

Survivors daughter May 16, 2009 · 10:45 am

AND…. anyone who works in health care knows that her doctor was using distraction techniques in asking her about her movies to help her focus on something else besides the painful procedures he was performing. It’s done all the time- believe me, he really didn’t care about her answers!

I completely disagree. Yes, they are both actors and so you see some of that world at time, but that is their reality.
As someone who watched my Mom fight for and eventually lose her life to cancer, it was a very raw look at someone battling cancer and the people who love them as they all try to find hope even when they know there isn’t much chance of their loved one surviving. And her courage is really amazing to watch.
I didn’t expect this to be a documentary on anal cancer and so didn’t expect too much of the medical details the writer claims are missing. As far as exploiting her, she did the movie herself and it is her story told from her own point of view.
It was one human being’s story of her life and her fight to live.

I agree with your observations about the lack of information regarding cause and prevention–odd since it was supposed to be about helping others. So, sadly, that makes me question if it really WAS all about actor’s ego…after all, this was the woman who had a reality show…”Chasing Farrah.”
I feel that this detachment from her true self in the pursuit of external gratification was the all-too-common root of her dis-ease and in that, we should see this, yes, as a cautionary tale…

Dear Ms Stanley, it took a lot of courage for Ms Fawcett to allow her painful journey to be seen by all. Most people only hear about the horrors of cancer, last night they got a glimpse of one woman’s courageous battle to save her life. The message I took from the story was clear. Never give up hope, she was told she had a short time to live and she proved that to be wrong. While you personally would have liked to see more information or the current treatments like HPV in early childhood, this was a personal story about one women’s journey and the pain that her family and friends have endured. I commend NBC for allowing this story to air at a time when most reality shows are mindless and a waste of air time I personally learned something. The fight goes on never give up on life no matter how hard the fight. Thank you Farrah, for a brief moment into your struggle. On a side note when I woke up this morning I held my wife as tight as I could reminding myself just how precious each day is.

FARRAH, THIS IS A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF THE FAILURE OF ALTERNATIVE TREATMENTS. ANAL CANCER IS TREATABLE IF YOU FOLLOW YOUR DOCTORS ADVICE !
ALTERNATIVE DOCTORS ARE ONLY AFTER YOUR $$$ AND IM SURE THEY GOT PLENTY OF IT FROM FARRAH.

I work in a very very good US hospital and I felt that Farrah went to Europe and Germany for alternative treatments, when the US medical system could have done a much better job, if she just let them before it was too late. If this is the future of medicine in our country I am ver much afraid that it is more hope than actual help. They painted this unrealistic rosey picture for her just so she could be happy for a little while, and then she has to be crushed by reality again. The best medical system although flawed like anything else is in the USA, just look at the numbers and survival rates. Thats with Americans leading the most unhealthy lifestyle of any other country. “The tumors are there but they are inactive” yeah right and the Popes not German. Farrah is very brave to do this and I pray for her and her family.

I hope what will be remembered from this film is Farrah Fawcett’s courage in pursuit of a cure for her disease and her insight into the joy of simply living from one day to the next fully able to participate in ways we often take for granted, and that are so precious and meaningful when looking back.

In the end she says, “I just want to live,” and that comes to mean having more time for what she loves to do–painting, sculpting, cooking, watching the rain, playing in the snow–and for being with the people she loves. After all the acclaim and uproar in her life, that’s what it seems to come down to–more time for enjoying the incredible gift of being alive and another chance to ask herself if she’d done her best that day. For me, this message more than justifies the two hours from my life taken to watch the film, and trumps whatever “hollywood glitz” may have shown up along the way. I am awed by- and applaud this beautiful woman whose journey becomes a triumph of love and spirit.

I thought the documentary was excellent showing Farrah’s strenght and hope. This NYT’s reviewer is so critical and smug with her comments. I felt the show was a true depiction of the pain and struggle for both Farrah, her friends and family. Yes, I’ll agree the show didn’t mention the details – but at least it got the public’s attention and may put a spotlight about this cancer and all other cancers. I believe this was an honest protrayal of Farrah’s fight and not some exploitative VH1 show. Shame on you, Ms. Stanley. I hope Farrah doesn’t read your review. Godspeed Farrah – my prayers are with you! May the rain fall gently in heaven for you.

I watched the show last evening and found it to be a compassionate look at a courageous woman. I don’t agree with many choices she made in life, but I can’t help but wonder if she consented to do this show in order that the payment from the network would help to defray some of the cost of her treatments. She strikes me as one who would be embarrassed to leave medical bills still owing, in her estate.

One thing puzzles me about this documentary. After obviously spending millions on treatments and trips to Germany and toward the end of the show (when it is obviously too late) everyone decides to go ahead with the chemo treatments that will cause Farrah to lose her hair. Does this mean she refused more aggressive chemo earlier in the disease in order to keep her hair? The voice over says something like, “Hair is not trivial to Farrah.”

since i am a cancer patient, with similar determination and a great attitude, i run into walls that are blocked since there is no funding for Head and Neck cancer, which not only inhibits my survival, i also look ugly. You live and breath the disease every time you look in the mirror. Farrah’s message in doing the show, leaves me questioning the motive. I have to say Dr. Piro was my hero in this piece. His intelligence and confidence and honesty is real., since he is my doctor as well, he treats all his patients the sameway. Listening to his voice and his words are soothing. Another physician with less self esteem, would be so threatened by farrah visiting other physicians. Sylvia Dyck

It is a tragedy for anyone to die of cancer, and I wish her family and friends the best.

But to address:
“Why isn’t there more research done on certain types of cancer?”

There is more research done on cancer and other health problems in the USA than in any other country. There is never “enough,” but there is a lot of money going to treating and curing disease, and many hardworking people devoting their lives to it.

As for advances in anal cancer, wouldn’t it be great if they developed a vaccine that could prevent the types of HPV infections that cause that vast majority of cervical and anal cancers?

Oh wait, researchers developed that vaccine, a shot that prevents cancer.
Probably the most significant advance in women’s health in this decade.

Did this program promote or even mention this?
No.

I don’t fault Ms. Fawcett, it’s the choice of the producers.
The old medical conspiracy angle.

There are plenty of problems with our health care system, but lack of progress in treating anal cancer is not near the top in my view.

I admire Farrah. She is brave and she is to be admired. I thank her for sharing her story and being an inspiration to others who suffer terminal illnesses.

I think the reviewer here as missed the point. I did not watch this to pass judgment on Ms. Fawcetts medical choices; nor, to learn the facts on Anal Cancer. I suppose I watched it out of curiousity. I wondered why someone, anyone would choose to share their horrible battle with the world in this manner. Ms. Fawcett blessed me last night with the prvlidge of her beautiful spirit ,and the oh so important reminder of what a blessing and gift life is. I saw the beauty of friendship between Ms. Fawcett and Ms. Stewart. The Love between her and Mr. O’neal and the so many medical professionals who would endless to help people. Ms. Fawcett was able to take not only her terrible tragedy and the the horrible injustice done to her by the tabloids and give something special back to humanity the beauty of life. I think the reviewer may want to take another look at this documentary with new glasses.

mjak

Thank-you Farrah for letting us in to your battle,you are very brave and you have touch others who know what you are battling and I believe you are helping in so many ways. Please take care and my prayers are with you and your family. I relly hope that someday soon there will be a tratment and a cure.Keep your friends close and god bless
Jackie

I thought Farrah’s Story was moving and heart felt. It gave us all an insight of the devastation cancer and take. You can find criticism in anything, but the mere fact that one of our favorite “stars” opened up to the public and shared her battle, I thought it was incredibly brave.

Chris