Even the most beautiful bouquet of Valentine’s Day flowers will eventually die, but a good sex toy (especially a rechargable one) will keep going on and on forever. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to invest in some new sex toys. You can splurge on something that’s just for your personal pleasure or buy one of these for your S.O. as a sexy ~for us~ gift. And seriously, is there a better time to make some steamy purchases? Valentine’s Day is all about celebrating romance, love, and, ofc, sex. We’ve rounded up some of the best sex toys for Valentine’s Day (or really, any time of the year).
If you’re not sure where to start, don’t stress—you’ve come to the right place. We’ve got info on everything from the best vibrators (whether you prefer Rabbits, wands, or something else!) to sex toys for long-distance couples to the best sex toys you can buy on Amazon. We’ve even given the Cosmo Stamp of Sexcellence to our absolute faves. And if you’re looking for sex positions that’ll incorporate your new fave toys, we’ve got those too.
There’s sure to be a Valentine’s Day sex toy that’s perfect for you, whether you’re trying to stick to a budget or looking for luxury picks (you deserve it). We kept the classic Valentine’s theme of hearts, pink, and red in mind when picking most (but not all because, y’know, options!) of these. Here’s our guide to 23 amazing Valentine’s Day sex toys for ya.
1. This Luxe Rabbit Vibrator
First things first, this vibrator just looks luxe, thanks to its gold and deep purple design. But it gets better. There are 35 (!!!) distinct vibration patterns and a rotating shaft, so you’ll never be bored. This is definitely one way to treat yourself this V-Day.
2. This OMG-Worthy Ring
This vibrating penis ring is sure to take you both to new heights. There are 25 distinct vibration modes, and it’s super quiet (a godsend if you have roommates or thin walls, tbh). This is definitely a toy you can get creative with. In addition to using it as a penis ring, you could use it by itself as a vibrator or maybe even put it in your underwear to use as a panty vibe and hand them the remote. I foresee a very hot Valentine’s Day in your future with this toy.
3. This Little Lipstick Vibe
You could toss this into your makeup bag and no one would look twice. But you know this is something special. The Lelo Mia 2 has six distinct vibration patterns and is rechargeable via USB (which is impressive—many bullet vibrators like this rely on batteries). That angled tip is sure to hit all the right spots, and did I mention it’s also waterproof? If you’re going away to celebrate Valentine’s Day with someone, this is the powerful lil vibe you should bring.
4. This Candy Heart Dildo
Okay, how cute is this candy heart dildo? It’s got a suction cup on the base so you can stick it to a flat surface, it’s seven inches long, and it has a slight angle that’s perfect for internal stimulation. It’s also got a 1.5-inch diameter, which means it’s compatible with most harnesses.
5. This Flexible Vibrator
Feelmore We-Vibe Nova 2 Flexible Rabbit
This bendy vibrator can seriously hit all the right spots. It provides internal and external stimulation and the shafts are totally adjustable, so it fits most body shapes. It has 10 distinct modes and can be controlled (by you or by a partner) using the We-Connect app.
6. This Eco-Friendly Pink Bullet Vibrator
Blush Novelties Blush Gaia Eco Biodegradable & Recyclable Vibrator
Blush Novelties Blush Gaia Eco Biodegradable & Recyclable Vibrator
This is actually so cool. It’s the world’s first vibrator made with biodegradable materials, so you can get off and be eco-friendly at the same time. Who doesn’t love that? Plus, it’s waterproof. And at about $15, it’s a total steal as well.
7. This Dynamic Vibrator for Everybody
There’s basically nothing you can’t do with this flexible vibrator. It’s intentionally designed for all bodies, so you can hump it, rub it on someone else (or yourself), put it in a harness, put it between two bodies during sex, wrap it around a penis…you get the idea. It has three speeds and three patterns and is fully submersible, so you can even bring your V-Day celebration into the bath if you’re feeling it.
8. This Coral Pink Panty Vibrator
Clandestine Devices Companion Wearable Remote Vibrator
You can tease or be teased with this pink panty vibrator for a super-hot Valentine’s Day. It has a magnet to keep it in just the right spot in your panties and seven patterns with five levels of intensity. Even if you don’t have a partner you’re spending the day with, you can use this for some solo fun.
9. This Pink and Purple Sex-Toy Kit
Lovehoney Lovehoney Rock My World Sex Toy Kit (6 Piece)
Lovehoney Lovehoney Rock My World Sex Toy Kit (6 Piece)
Yeah, you’re going to have a fun Valentine’s Day. This kit comes with a dildo, a G-spot vibrator, two bullet vibrators, a wand, and an anal dildo. You can even slip one of the bullet vibrators into the anal dildo to take things up a notch.
10. This Sparkly Pink Wand Massager
Le Wand Petite All That Glimmers Pink Collection SALE
Le Wand Petite All That Glimmers Pink Collection SALE
What better way to get into the Valentine’s Day spirit than with a bright-pink, sparkly vibrator? The special edition Le Wand Petite All That Glimmers offers the power and va-va-voom of a wand vibrator but is more life-friendly (sorry, but the 13-inch wand vibrators are a pain in the ass most times) at only 10 inches. It also comes with a glittery matching travel bag, enamel pin, and body glitter, which is a whole vibe (pun intended) unto itself. There are six intensities, and the Petite LeWand is notable for being shower-friendly, whereas most wand vibrators are not. Another cute detail: the transparent pink charging cord. It’s perfect for the sex-toy connoisseur who can’t differentiate among their bajillion nearly identical USB charging cords, as this one will stick out in your drawer in the best way possible.
11. This Brightly Colored Clitoral Stimulator
Womanizer Womanizer Liberty by Lily Allen Clitoral Stimulator
Womanizer Womanizer Liberty by Lily Allen Clitoral Stimulator
Another sex toy that’s legit too cute to hide is the Lily Allen Womanizer Liberty. The original Womanizer Liberty has been a Cosmo favorite for a while, and the brand’s recent collab with Lily Allen introduced the Liberty in a super-cute poppy, bright orange, and pink colorway that is way too cute to pass up. This clitoral stimulator uses suction to simulate the feeling of the best oral sex ever and is rechargeable and 100 percent waterproof. It also has six intensity levels and comes with a handy hard plastic cover to keep things dust-free.
12. This Cute Finger Vibe
Not only is the Rev notable for being the first vibrator designed with accessibility in mind, but it’s also a super-powerful, versatile, and easy-to-use vibrator for all folx and bodies alike. The handy tether makes it clutch for partnered or solo sex, it’s quiet, it’s waterproof, and it’s rechargeable. It offers five preset vibration patterns and the design of a little heart-shaped kettlebell is pretty cute too.
13. This Itty-Bitty Pretty Option
Tracy's Dog Clitoral Sucking Vibrator for Women
It’s pink. It’s pretty. And it’ll definitely get you off.
14. This Travel-Ready Vibe
This one comes with its own travel case, so if you’re in an LDR, you can pack it in your carry-on with no fear of what TSA will say.
15. This Battery-Powered Bullet
It’s small but mighty, with a dial that lets you control the intensity of the vibrations.
16. This Editor-Approved Favorite
Trust—we love it. The Sona Cruise uses pulsing waves (like you’re standing next to a loud bass speaker at a club) to stimulate your clitoral nerves deep underneath your skin.
17. This Moving Rabbit Vibrator
The Ina Wave is not only a super-powerful rechargeable Rabbit vibrator, but it also moves up and down in a “come hither” motion to drive you over the edge.
18. This Vibrator With a “Tongue” to Simulate Oral Sex
This circular sex toy looks more objet d’art than vibrator, but trust us when we say that it delivers. There’s a little nub under the silicone skin that moves in different patterns like a tongue to feel like oral sex. Add in some of your favorite toy-friendly lube, and it’s even better.
19. This Super-Quiet Clitoral Vibrator
The Lily 2 might be small, but it’s definitely mighty. This external vibrator is 100 percent waterproof and rechargeable, and it has eight different stimulation patterns. It’s also extremely quiet despite the rumbly motor.
20. This Highly Rated Rabbit Vibrator
Lovehoney Desire Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator
Lovehoney Desire Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator
This rechargeable silicone Rabbit vibrator has 8 preset patterns and 12 (yes, 12!) levels of intensity to customize. It also boasts a 4.5-star rating over 160 reviews and there’s a free toy case included. What more do you need to know?
21. This Bright-Pink Dildo
This hot-pink six-inch dildo has a suction-cup base so you can ride it in place to your heart’s content. It’s also compatible with a harness in case you want to use it with your own strap-on setup.
22. This Strap-On Harness
This is another top-rated Lovehoney item (4.5 stars over 237 reviews!) and the sale price makes it extra enticing. For less than $30, you get an adjustable strap-on harness and a seven-inch dildo. The harness is adjustable between 28 and 65 inches (or the equivalent of dress sizes 8 to 28).
23. This Inflatable Rabbit
This splashproof, rechargeable Rabbit vibrator features independently controlled motors in both shafts for a ton of possible vibration and pattern combinations. The cool thing about this Rabbit in particular is that you can control the tip to inflate when inside you, so you get the sensation of girth and internal pressure with easy insertion. The inflatable portion expands up to two inches, so it’s a lotta oomph too.
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