Want to escape your family holiday? Plan a trip with this quiz.

How to break out of your routine, even if you can’t get away from family

Updated Nov. 15 at 3:56 p.m.Originally published Nov. 17, 2022

When the holidays arrive, Americans cling tight to tradition. It doesn’t matter how ugly the sweater, how ill-fitting the pajamas, how bland the casserole: If it’s a family ritual, changing the script can seem unthinkable. It’s assumed that you’ll dive headlong into the most crowded travel days of the year to get home and participate.

But it doesn’t have to be this way. Maybe you don’t need to trek to see your parents, your in-laws or your out-of-town chosen family right now. Maybe this year you deserve a great escape.

[This holiday, give yourself the gift of a vacation away from family]

If you do decide to ditch your typical holiday routine, you won’t be alone. Domestic airfare is high during the holidays, but cheap international fares encourage adventurous travelers to go far.

If you’re feeling so bold, we’re here to help you plan your spontaneous vacation — and break the news to your family.

Question 1 of 5

Can you skip the obligatory family visit?

Question 2 of 5

Do you want to bring family with you?

Question 3 of 5

What’s your vacation style?

Question 4 of 5

What are your biggest concerns?

Question 5 of 5

Can’t go just yet? What are your travel goals for next year?

About this story

Editing by Gabe Hiatt and Amanda Finnegan. Illustrations by Heidi Berton. Design and art direction by Katty Huertas. Design editing by Christine Ashack. Copy editing by Rachael Bolek.