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Blue Christmas: Mental health expert offers advice as the holidays bring increases in anxiety and depression

Blue Christmas: Mental health expert offers advice as the holidays bring increases in anxiety and depression
INVESTIGATION. ACCORDING TO THE NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS, 64% OF PEOPLE REPORTED EXPERIENCING HOLIDAY DEPRESSION AROUND CHRISTMAS TIME. AND IT’S A STRUGGLE THAT A LOT OF PEOPLE IN OUR REGION FACE EVERY TIME DECEMBER ROLLS AROUND. PEYTON FURTADO SPOKE WITH A MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL ABOUT THIS, AND PEYTON, WHO DOES THIS AFFECT, SAY, SYDNEY? IT COULD IMPACT ANYONE IT CAN WORSEN PREEXISTING CONDITIONS FOR FOLKS WITH DIAGNOSED MENTAL ILLNESS AND IT CAN ADD NEW STRESSORS TO OTHERS. IT’S THE MOST WONDERFUL AND, STRESSFUL TIME OF THE YEAR. AND ACCORDING TO THE NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS, IT CAN LEAD TO HEIGHTENED DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY. THAT EXPECTATION OF COMES TOGETHER AND YOU KNOW HALLMARK. NOT NOTHING AGAINST HALLMARK MOVIES BUT THEY SORT OF PRESENT A SOMEWHAT IDEALIZED PICTURE. AND WE NEVER QUITE GET THEIR UNREALISTICALLY HIGH EXPECTED FASHIONS. BUT STRESSORS LIKE FINANCIAL STRUGGLES AND A NAUGHTY AND NICE SIZED LIST OF CAN ADD UP AND LEAD TO HIGHER STRESS LEVELS. I LIKE TO TALK ABOUT STRESS AS WALKING IN A THREE OR FOUR FOOT POOL OF WATER AND THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN I ADD ANOTHER FOOT OF WATER. THIS OF YEAR IS TYPICALLY ABOUT BEING WITH THE ONES YOU LOVE. BUT WHEN FAMILIES EXPERIENCE LOSS, THE HOLIDAYS CAN TRIGGER BITTERSWEET MEMORIES. THE FIRST HOLIDAY THAT I HAD AFTER MOTHER PASSED AWAY, I REMEMBERED AND SORT OF ALMOST EVERY SOMETHING HAPPENED. I HAD TO BREAD FOR THE FIRST TIME BECAUSE MY MOTHER ALWAYS MADE BREAD. SO IT WAS ALMOST LIKE EVERY TIME I HAD TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT MAKING BREAD, I WAS KIND OF BROUGHT FACE TO WITH THAT REALITY THAT MY MOTHER HAD PASSED AWAY. UNFORTUNATELY, WILLIAMS SAYS, ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION AROUND THE HOLIDAYS IS COMMON, THE BEST WAY TO COMBAT IT. HE SAYS SELF-TALK, REMINDING YOURSELF THAT ONE THING GONE WRONG DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY THE DAY IS RUINED. AND IF YOU FIND ALONE OR SAD, TRY AND REACH OUT TO THOSE YOU LOVE. MAINTAIN THOSE CONNECTIONS AND AND MAKE MORE CONNECTIONS. AND IF YOU DON’T HAVE ANYBODY, VOLUNTEER AT A SOUP KITCHEN, I PROMISE THEY’LL BE HAPPY TO TALK TO YOU. WILLIAMS ALSO SAYS THIS TIME OF YEAR HE SOMETIMES SEES INCREASES IN SELF-HARM AND SUICIDAL THOUGHTS. IF THAT SOUNDS LIKE YOU, PLEASE ONE OF THESE NUMBERS ON YOUR SCREEN. THERE IS HOPE. THERE IS SUPPORT FOR YOU ALL Y
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Blue Christmas: Mental health expert offers advice as the holidays bring increases in anxiety and depression
According to the National Alliance of Mental Illness, 64 percent of people report experiencing holiday depression or anxiety around Christmas time. It can be the most wonderful and stressful time of year. "That expectation of everything comes together," said Roger Williams, the executive director of the Spartanburg Area Mental Health Center. "Nothing against Hallmark movies, but they sort of present an idealized picture, and we never quite get there."Unrealistically high expectations, plus stressors like financial struggles and a naughty and nice-sized list of to-dos, can add up and lead to higher stress levels. "I like to talk about stress as walking in a three- or four-foot pool of water, and all of a sudden, I add another foot of water," he said.This time of year is typically about being with the ones you love. But when families experience loss, the holidays can trigger bittersweet memories."The first holiday that I had after my mother passed away," Williams said. "I had to make bread for the first time, because my mother always made bread. So, it was almost like every time I had to do something about making bread, I was sort of brought face to face with that reality that my mother had passed away."Williams recommended "self-talk" to combat the anxiety: Reminding yourself that one thing gone wrong does not automatically mean everything is ruined.And if you find yourself alone or sad, try and reach out to those you love.“Maintain those connections and make more connections," he said. "And if you don't have anybody, volunteer at a soup kitchen. I promise they'll be happy to talk to you."Williams said this time of year, he's seen increases in self-harm and suicidal ideations. If that sounds like you, he asked that you please reach out for help and call or text one of the numbers below.Text "Help" or "Ayuda" to 741741 for the Crisis Text Line.Dial 803-339-3339 for SCDMH Deaf Services Helpline.If you or someone you know needs help, you can talk with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or sending a text message to 988, or you can chat online here.

According to the National Alliance of Mental Illness, 64 percent of people report experiencing holiday depression or anxiety around Christmas time.

It can be the most wonderful and stressful time of year.

"That expectation of everything comes together," said Roger Williams, the executive director of the Spartanburg Area Mental Health Center. "Nothing against Hallmark movies, but they sort of present an idealized picture, and we never quite get there."

Unrealistically high expectations, plus stressors like financial struggles and a naughty and nice-sized list of to-dos, can add up and lead to higher stress levels.

"I like to talk about stress as walking in a three- or four-foot pool of water, and all of a sudden, I add another foot of water," he said.

This time of year is typically about being with the ones you love. But when families experience loss, the holidays can trigger bittersweet memories.

"The first holiday that I had after my mother passed away," Williams said. "I had to make bread for the first time, because my mother always made bread. So, it was almost like every time I had to do something about making bread, I was sort of brought face to face with that reality that my mother had passed away."

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Williams recommended "self-talk" to combat the anxiety: Reminding yourself that one thing gone wrong does not automatically mean everything is ruined.

And if you find yourself alone or sad, try and reach out to those you love.

“Maintain those connections and make more connections," he said. "And if you don't have anybody, volunteer at a soup kitchen. I promise they'll be happy to talk to you."

Williams said this time of year, he's seen increases in self-harm and suicidal ideations. If that sounds like you, he asked that you please reach out for help and call or text one of the numbers below.

Text "Help" or "Ayuda" to 741741 for the Crisis Text Line.

Dial 803-339-3339 for SCDMH Deaf Services Helpline.

If you or someone you know needs help, you can talk with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or sending a text message to 988, or you can chat online here.