EMDR Therapists in Cottonwood, CA

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Michael L Elterman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cottonwood, CA 96022
Certified EMDR therapist & have been successfully providing EMDR over the internet.
LIFE is PRECIOUS. Learn to be the actor in your life, not the reactor. I've worked with individuals, couples, families, & groups. Being licensed since 1984 has provided me the opportunity to learn from pioneers in family & individual therapy. Work well with adults who suffer from deep atrocities as children & have many years working with preteens & teens. I assist parents with disabled children using behavioral approaches, adding to the parents' toolbox. ON-LINE-VIDEO, TELEHEALTH THERAPY IN CALIFORNIA & NEVADA. I do see clients in-person in Gardnerville, NV. 17mi South of Carson City.
Certified EMDR therapist & have been successfully providing EMDR over the internet.
LIFE is PRECIOUS. Learn to be the actor in your life, not the reactor. I've worked with individuals, couples, families, & groups. Being licensed since 1984 has provided me the opportunity to learn from pioneers in family & individual therapy. Work well with adults who suffer from deep atrocities as children & have many years working with preteens & teens. I assist parents with disabled children using behavioral approaches, adding to the parents' toolbox. ON-LINE-VIDEO, TELEHEALTH THERAPY IN CALIFORNIA & NEVADA. I do see clients in-person in Gardnerville, NV. 17mi South of Carson City.
(530) 264-8748 View (530) 264-8748
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Christopher Ruper
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Cottonwood, CA 96022  (Online Only)
Hello, I am Christopher Ruper, licensed marriage and family therapist. I focus on treating clients with symptoms of Anxiety, Depression, and Trauma. I have a Person-Centered approach and also utilize ACT, CBT, and EMDR for trauma. If you struggle with worry or have racing thoughts, feeling down or low energy, or have a lack of interest/pleasure, I may be able to help. I provide my clients with a safe therapeutic environment through the use of empathy and warmth. I assist clients with identifying thoughts, feelings, and behaviors; while assisting them with finding a healthy balance and living life according to their values.
Hello, I am Christopher Ruper, licensed marriage and family therapist. I focus on treating clients with symptoms of Anxiety, Depression, and Trauma. I have a Person-Centered approach and also utilize ACT, CBT, and EMDR for trauma. If you struggle with worry or have racing thoughts, feeling down or low energy, or have a lack of interest/pleasure, I may be able to help. I provide my clients with a safe therapeutic environment through the use of empathy and warmth. I assist clients with identifying thoughts, feelings, and behaviors; while assisting them with finding a healthy balance and living life according to their values.
(805) 429-8964 View (805) 429-8964
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Hanna Kuyper
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Cottonwood, CA 96022
I apply approaches such as EMDR, Acceptance and commitment therapy, ERP, Self-Compassion and mindfulness.
Are you consumed with thoughts of food and your body? Do you feel out of control, like you can't trust yourself or your willpower isn't strong enough? I support clients who are ready to heal, grow and overcome their eating disorder, body image struggles or the yo yo cycle of constant diets and restriction. I can support you in necessary skills and tools to lead a more embodied and values driven life while connecting to your bodies cues and developing a trusting relationship with yourself . We will work together to understand your specific goals and needs to improve your overall health and well being.
I apply approaches such as EMDR, Acceptance and commitment therapy, ERP, Self-Compassion and mindfulness.
Are you consumed with thoughts of food and your body? Do you feel out of control, like you can't trust yourself or your willpower isn't strong enough? I support clients who are ready to heal, grow and overcome their eating disorder, body image struggles or the yo yo cycle of constant diets and restriction. I can support you in necessary skills and tools to lead a more embodied and values driven life while connecting to your bodies cues and developing a trusting relationship with yourself . We will work together to understand your specific goals and needs to improve your overall health and well being.
(530) 288-4387 View (530) 288-4387
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Dr. Debbie Celli-Francis
Psychologist, PsyD, MA, BAR
Verified Verified
Cottonwood, CA 96022
CURRENTLY OFFERING VIDEO SESSIONS I view psychotherapy as an opportunity to enrich your relationship with yourself and the world. Together, we'll create a safe space where you can explore and understand yourself, your strengths, and your challenges. In therapy, we'll develop effective coping skills to use now and in future situations. Life can be difficult but you don't have to figure it out all alone. I know you're struggling with something painful right now ... you've already taken the first step toward healing. .
CURRENTLY OFFERING VIDEO SESSIONS I view psychotherapy as an opportunity to enrich your relationship with yourself and the world. Together, we'll create a safe space where you can explore and understand yourself, your strengths, and your challenges. In therapy, we'll develop effective coping skills to use now and in future situations. Life can be difficult but you don't have to figure it out all alone. I know you're struggling with something painful right now ... you've already taken the first step toward healing. .
(833) 420-1803 View (833) 420-1803
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Heather L Mauldin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LLC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cottonwood, CA 96022  (Online Only)
(530) 803-5152 View (530) 803-5152

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Mishell Knoess
Associate Clinical Social Worker, MSW, ACSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Anderson, CA 96007
With my upcoming EMDR training, we'll undo emotional knots, guiding your healing journey.
Have you ever felt like the odd one out in a world that seems to march to a different beat? Perhaps you've been told you're a bit eccentric, a whirlwind of creativity and wit, yet at times, you've felt like a bull in a china shop, navigating life's delicate moments with a touch of unpredictability. Maybe whispers of ADHD or ADD have reached your ears, but the labels don't quite align with your unique journey through adulthood.
With my upcoming EMDR training, we'll undo emotional knots, guiding your healing journey.
Have you ever felt like the odd one out in a world that seems to march to a different beat? Perhaps you've been told you're a bit eccentric, a whirlwind of creativity and wit, yet at times, you've felt like a bull in a china shop, navigating life's delicate moments with a touch of unpredictability. Maybe whispers of ADHD or ADD have reached your ears, but the labels don't quite align with your unique journey through adulthood.
(530) 625-7909 View (530) 625-7909
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Catherine Cundy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Anderson, CA 96007
I am a trauma and neuroscience informed (EMDR) therapist and work with individuals and couples.
My ideal clients desires to live authentically and are in search of health, self discovery and thriving relationships. They are likely to have struggled with depression, anxiety, trauma, or somatic complaints for many year--and are EXHAUSTED!! I find encouragement in assisting clients to break free of dysfunctional patterns that have kept them stuck in unhealthy relationships and stressful cycles. I strongly believe that people have within them the ability to heal but that finding that inner power is sometimes limited by trauma, grief, stress, and faulty coping. A trusted therapist can help you speed up the process of healing.
I am a trauma and neuroscience informed (EMDR) therapist and work with individuals and couples.
My ideal clients desires to live authentically and are in search of health, self discovery and thriving relationships. They are likely to have struggled with depression, anxiety, trauma, or somatic complaints for many year--and are EXHAUSTED!! I find encouragement in assisting clients to break free of dysfunctional patterns that have kept them stuck in unhealthy relationships and stressful cycles. I strongly believe that people have within them the ability to heal but that finding that inner power is sometimes limited by trauma, grief, stress, and faulty coping. A trusted therapist can help you speed up the process of healing.
(530) 456-6571 View (530) 456-6571
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Dara Fields
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
Anderson, CA 96007
Some of my favorite modalities are emotion-focused therapy for couples (completed the internship and core skills), the Gottman method for couple work (levels one and two completed), internal family systems (level one), narrative story work (level one training in progress), and trained in trauma processing using a technique called EMDR.
I have engaged with various individuals from different backgrounds and presented needs, but predominantly assist adults, couples, and families in developing healthier relationships with themselves and others. I aim to help you grow in how you relate to yourself and others, your identity as a person, your ability to stay in a balanced view of reality and become even more of an adult pursuing your unique passions in the world.
Some of my favorite modalities are emotion-focused therapy for couples (completed the internship and core skills), the Gottman method for couple work (levels one and two completed), internal family systems (level one), narrative story work (level one training in progress), and trained in trauma processing using a technique called EMDR.
I have engaged with various individuals from different backgrounds and presented needs, but predominantly assist adults, couples, and families in developing healthier relationships with themselves and others. I aim to help you grow in how you relate to yourself and others, your identity as a person, your ability to stay in a balanced view of reality and become even more of an adult pursuing your unique passions in the world.
(530) 628-9230 View (530) 628-9230
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Amanda Magnuson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified Verified
Anderson, CA 96007
I enjoy helping clients impacted by grief, trauma, PTSD and anxiety overcome the residual symptoms that affect the mind and body, through the use of EMDR, CBT and brain health analysis.
I am an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist supervised by Nicole Gentile, LMFT 103047. Throughout the years, I have witnessed the transformation an individual can have when one person wants to come alongside them in their journey and help encourage them, educate them and validate them. Years of experience in social services, ministry, school education and life have led me to this calling of helping others through therapy and I am honored to get to be there for others and help them experience healing and freedom in their lives.
I enjoy helping clients impacted by grief, trauma, PTSD and anxiety overcome the residual symptoms that affect the mind and body, through the use of EMDR, CBT and brain health analysis.
I am an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist supervised by Nicole Gentile, LMFT 103047. Throughout the years, I have witnessed the transformation an individual can have when one person wants to come alongside them in their journey and help encourage them, educate them and validate them. Years of experience in social services, ministry, school education and life have led me to this calling of helping others through therapy and I am honored to get to be there for others and help them experience healing and freedom in their lives.
(530) 212-7731 View (530) 212-7731
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Nicole Gentile
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Anderson, CA 96007
To assist you in overcoming life’s challenges, traumas, and severed relationships I will utilize the following: EMDR, Art therapy, Structural Family therapy, experiential activities, provide psycho education, Positive Parenting Program, Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and more in order to suit your individual needs for your healing.
My passion is working with a wide range of people who are finding a way to live in their full potential and purpose. Life at times is painful, give me the opportunity to sit with you and help you find relief. I am experienced working with children, teenagers, couples, families, blended families, and parents. I feel a great sense of honor and privilege to work in the intimate parts of others lives in areas of anxiety, depression, trauma, parenting, and grief. In 2011 is when I started training as a therapist and have now been licensed as a marriage and family therapist since 2017.
To assist you in overcoming life’s challenges, traumas, and severed relationships I will utilize the following: EMDR, Art therapy, Structural Family therapy, experiential activities, provide psycho education, Positive Parenting Program, Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and more in order to suit your individual needs for your healing.
My passion is working with a wide range of people who are finding a way to live in their full potential and purpose. Life at times is painful, give me the opportunity to sit with you and help you find relief. I am experienced working with children, teenagers, couples, families, blended families, and parents. I feel a great sense of honor and privilege to work in the intimate parts of others lives in areas of anxiety, depression, trauma, parenting, and grief. In 2011 is when I started training as a therapist and have now been licensed as a marriage and family therapist since 2017.
(530) 203-6539 View (530) 203-6539
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Mary Mosbacher
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Anderson, CA 96007
Waitlist for new clients
I use an integration of EMDR, EMDR Flash Technique, Relational, Mindfulness, Cognitive Behavioral and EFT.
It's hard to be stuck in unhealthy patterns and emotional blocks and it can be difficult to ask for help. Although there are many different reasons for seeking counseling, the common thread is the desire for change in your life. Whether it is a change in moods, situations, relationships, or unresolved loss, I believe in building a genuine therapeutic alliance with clients that models a successful relationship pattern. This includes a healthy relationship with yourself and is the basis for all other connections in your life.
I use an integration of EMDR, EMDR Flash Technique, Relational, Mindfulness, Cognitive Behavioral and EFT.
It's hard to be stuck in unhealthy patterns and emotional blocks and it can be difficult to ask for help. Although there are many different reasons for seeking counseling, the common thread is the desire for change in your life. Whether it is a change in moods, situations, relationships, or unresolved loss, I believe in building a genuine therapeutic alliance with clients that models a successful relationship pattern. This includes a healthy relationship with yourself and is the basis for all other connections in your life.
(530) 287-6645 View (530) 287-6645
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Ursula D Buxton
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Anderson, CA 96007  (Online Only)
I am here to help people solve problems with relationships. It can be better than it is and you can do it. Therapy helps us all to be happier again, and soon. Going to therapy is a step before we resolve our issues. I use EMDR, Hypnotherapy, Mind/Body Connection and Cognitive Behavioral approach to help individuals to resolve trauma and ease PTSD. All this to heal painful feelings and behaviors that are keeping us feeling stuck. We can achieve our goals, especially reach happiness we want, to be true to our own core values. All this will improve communication with others- I call it a side effect of therapy, a way to happiness.
I am here to help people solve problems with relationships. It can be better than it is and you can do it. Therapy helps us all to be happier again, and soon. Going to therapy is a step before we resolve our issues. I use EMDR, Hypnotherapy, Mind/Body Connection and Cognitive Behavioral approach to help individuals to resolve trauma and ease PTSD. All this to heal painful feelings and behaviors that are keeping us feeling stuck. We can achieve our goals, especially reach happiness we want, to be true to our own core values. All this will improve communication with others- I call it a side effect of therapy, a way to happiness.
(530) 665-8695 View (530) 665-8695
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Bethany Ault
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
Anderson, CA 96007
I work with individuals, couples, and families to provide therapy. I feel privileged to be given the opportunity to walk with people through the process of healing and growth as they make discoveries about themselves, and move towards their goals.
I work with individuals, couples, and families to provide therapy. I feel privileged to be given the opportunity to walk with people through the process of healing and growth as they make discoveries about themselves, and move towards their goals.
(530) 270-7729 View (530) 270-7729
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Christa Parro
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Anderson, CA 96007
Are you someone who has experienced difficult things in your life leading to depression, painful relationships and/or anxiety? Are you seeking therapy to navigate through the difficult psychological/mental/emotional wounds caused by your past experiences? Do you want to regain a sense of control, peace, and fulfillment in your life but don't know how to get there? Do you continue to struggle with a loss of control, confusion and unhappiness?
Are you someone who has experienced difficult things in your life leading to depression, painful relationships and/or anxiety? Are you seeking therapy to navigate through the difficult psychological/mental/emotional wounds caused by your past experiences? Do you want to regain a sense of control, peace, and fulfillment in your life but don't know how to get there? Do you continue to struggle with a loss of control, confusion and unhappiness?
(530) 531-8123 View (530) 531-8123
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Marilyn J Wooley
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Anderson, CA 96007
Waitlist for new clients
My ideal client is motivated and willing to work hard to achieve therapeutic goals. I take a practical, direct approach to problem solving using CBT. My hypoallergenic therapy dog, Dood, assists with treatment and promotes a calming environment.
My ideal client is motivated and willing to work hard to achieve therapeutic goals. I take a practical, direct approach to problem solving using CBT. My hypoallergenic therapy dog, Dood, assists with treatment and promotes a calming environment.
(530) 419-6006 View (530) 419-6006

Online Therapists

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Amy Schulze-Wolcott
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redding, CA 96002
My primary focus is on helping couples and working with families including adolescents, and adults. I am a trained couples therapist utilizing Relational Life Therapy by Terry Real (RLT), The Gottman Method and Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) as my foundation for helping partners get unstuck and develop a deeper connection. Trained in Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR), I am able to treat the effects of trauma to assist clients to gain emotional freedom from past traumatic events.
My primary focus is on helping couples and working with families including adolescents, and adults. I am a trained couples therapist utilizing Relational Life Therapy by Terry Real (RLT), The Gottman Method and Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) as my foundation for helping partners get unstuck and develop a deeper connection. Trained in Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR), I am able to treat the effects of trauma to assist clients to gain emotional freedom from past traumatic events.
(530) 508-5763 View (530) 508-5763
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Kimberly Micaela Price
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chico, CA 95926
With adults and adolescents, I also utilize EMDR and mindfulness to help people go within, process, and work with what needs to be healed and released.
For many of us, our pains and heartaches can be felt in every aspect of our lives, physically, emotionally, mentally, behaviorally, and relationally. My experience includes assisting children, adolescents, adults, and families who are dealing with problems related to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflict, trauma, and major life transitions. These feelings and experiences can be incredibly overwhelming, confusing, and isolating and I am passionate about helping people develop coping strategies, process painful experiences, and heal and grow so that they can live a fulfilling life.
With adults and adolescents, I also utilize EMDR and mindfulness to help people go within, process, and work with what needs to be healed and released.
For many of us, our pains and heartaches can be felt in every aspect of our lives, physically, emotionally, mentally, behaviorally, and relationally. My experience includes assisting children, adolescents, adults, and families who are dealing with problems related to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflict, trauma, and major life transitions. These feelings and experiences can be incredibly overwhelming, confusing, and isolating and I am passionate about helping people develop coping strategies, process painful experiences, and heal and grow so that they can live a fulfilling life.
(530) 404-5573 View (530) 404-5573
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Patricia J Stahl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA, MS
Verified Verified
Yuba City, CA 95993
I have had good success with Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing(EMDR), especially with people who have trauma.
I was a vocational counselor for many years helping injured workers return to work. I worked as a therapist for twenty years for a psychiatrist, social agency and now in private practice. I specialize in trauma work with adults, children and enjoy working with families to help them become happier and more functional. Individual and couples therapy is particularly rewarding especially when positive change is desired. I can help you formulate and actualize changes in thoughts, feelings and behaviors for more satisfying relationships. I enjoy helping people access their own inner strength and resources to face whatever challenges life presents.
I have had good success with Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing(EMDR), especially with people who have trauma.
I was a vocational counselor for many years helping injured workers return to work. I worked as a therapist for twenty years for a psychiatrist, social agency and now in private practice. I specialize in trauma work with adults, children and enjoy working with families to help them become happier and more functional. Individual and couples therapy is particularly rewarding especially when positive change is desired. I can help you formulate and actualize changes in thoughts, feelings and behaviors for more satisfying relationships. I enjoy helping people access their own inner strength and resources to face whatever challenges life presents.
(530) 628-6754 View (530) 628-6754
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Rhonda Nechanicky
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, MATP, BSN, RN
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Redding, CA 96002
I have training in EMDR, Sandplay, DBT, and Psychodrama.
Telemed/Video appointments available. I work with individuals, adolescents, teens, groups, and couples. I specialize in helping people alleviate and prevent depression, anxiety, and trauma symptoms using specific, practical and scientifically proven psychotherapy techniques. My goal is to teach tools and techniques that empower clients to function more effectively and experience a healthier and more balanced state of being.
I have training in EMDR, Sandplay, DBT, and Psychodrama.
Telemed/Video appointments available. I work with individuals, adolescents, teens, groups, and couples. I specialize in helping people alleviate and prevent depression, anxiety, and trauma symptoms using specific, practical and scientifically proven psychotherapy techniques. My goal is to teach tools and techniques that empower clients to function more effectively and experience a healthier and more balanced state of being.
(530) 924-0876 View (530) 924-0876
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Aisha Kamala EMDR Intensives - California
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chico, CA 95973  (Online Only)
If that all sounds too familiar, then an EMDR Intensive can be exactly what you need.
One-size-fits-all therapy works great if everyone has the same problems, but we all know that’s not the case. You’re exhausted from searching for something that actually works. Doing MORE standard therapy isn’t the answer, but you already know that. You’re solving the surface stuff, but not getting through the deep layers to those core issues that are the real cause. It’s like you’re living in a house with a broken foundation and you’re trying to fix it by slapping on new coats of paint. You’re committed and motivated to do the work, but you don’t have months to wait for positive changes.
If that all sounds too familiar, then an EMDR Intensive can be exactly what you need.
One-size-fits-all therapy works great if everyone has the same problems, but we all know that’s not the case. You’re exhausted from searching for something that actually works. Doing MORE standard therapy isn’t the answer, but you already know that. You’re solving the surface stuff, but not getting through the deep layers to those core issues that are the real cause. It’s like you’re living in a house with a broken foundation and you’re trying to fix it by slapping on new coats of paint. You’re committed and motivated to do the work, but you don’t have months to wait for positive changes.
(530) 288-6336 View (530) 288-6336

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Who is EMDR for?

EMDR was initially developed as a treatment for individuals with Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), for whom memories of a deeply distressing experience can be inadvertently triggered by random everyday events. The procedure has since been applied in the treatment of many other conditions. For example, it is used by some therapists to treat anxiety disorders including panic and phobias, depression, dissociative disorders, eating disorders, obsessive-compulsive disorders, and some personality disorders. It is suitable for adolescents and adults.

Why do people need EMDR?

People need EMDR as a way to manage distressing memories that in some way hamper the ability to function in the present. The procedure is believed to target the way memories are stored in the brain. Evidence indicates that past disturbing experiences cause ongoing distress because they were not adequately processed, and when such memories are triggered in the present, they are accompanied by all the emotions, thoughts, and physical sensations as the initial experience.

What problems does EMDR treat?

First and foremost, EMDR is intended as a treatment for PTSD, to defuse distressing memories that intrude on and impair everyday functioning. It is also often used to help those who are subject to panic attacks, phobias, and other forms of anxiety. In addition, EMDR has been used to treat individuals with depression, eating disorders, and personality disorders.

What happens in EMDR therapy?

First the therapist takes an individual’s history, and then the therapist and client decide which distressing experience(s) will be the target(s) of the exercise, delivered via a side-to-side visual stimulus requiring lateral eye movements. The client will be asked to activate thoughts, feelings, and any body sensations related to the troubling experience. The eye movements are said to reduce the emotional charge of the memory, so that the experience can then be safely discussed with the therapist and digested, minimizing its ability to trigger anxiety.