Three months ago, I nearly moved to Tunbridge Wells.

Much like many others, I was attracted by the town's proximity to London, images of The Pantiles and positive anecdotes from friends.

There seemed to be a lot to love and, apart from comments that it might be 'a little quiet' for a 23-year-old, the move very nearly happened.

As it turned out, I ended up living just over the Sussex border and the idea of life in Tunbridge Wells faded just as quickly as it appeared in my mind.

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However, with life returning to normal and the British summer threatening to stick around, I decided it was time to finally visit the town and see what it was all about.

That little research I did earlier this year aside, I went to Tunbridge Wells with little idea of what really to expect.

Here are the 10 aspects of the town's life that struck me at first.

Tunbridge Wells is spoilt for green spaces

Calverley Park looked great in the sun
Calverley Park looked great in the sun

I parked at the Crescent Road car park and, after a short walk, I was in Calverly Park.

The park looked beautiful in the sunshine and I was impressed by its well-kept floral displays and array of sports facilities.

It is clearly popular with locals too with benches full and groups of teenagers gathered around the fields.

I was also struck by how peaceful the area was. Despite being full, the park's atmosphere was calm and I couldn't help but think this couldn't be more different than a London park on such a day.

At that moment a couple walked by in leisurely debate over how someone could like cottage cheese but not normal cheese - the mundane discussion perfectly mirroring the pace of life.

I was taken enough by Calverly Park, so when I looked at the map to realise there was the even bigger Dunloran Park and Tunbridge Wells Common too, I was impressed how spoilt the town is for green spaces.


The Pantiles are very different during the day

Even The Pantiles were quiet
Even The Pantiles were quiet

My next stop was Tunbridge Wells' famous Pantiles.

I'd been looking forward to seeing it more than any other place in the town. I had seen photos and knew it was the hub for action.

However, when I arrived in the area at around 2pm, there was very little happening.

Only half the cafes and restaurants seemed open and the terraces were busy but placid.

The pictures and videos I'd seen had painted a different picture of what it was like in the evenings, so I concluded The Pantiles must be a nocturnal socialising spot.

I wish I was there for jazz on a Thursday night

Jazz on the Pantiles is a popular event in Tunbridge Wells
Jazz on the Pantiles in a former year

Despite its lack of action, I was quite taken by The Pantiles.

The terraces glowed in the sun and the thought of having a pint under the shade had me salivating - I lamented having to drive back and resisted the temptation of wetting my lips.

It was then that I passed a sign advertising the town's jazz nights.

Jazz on The Pantiles takes place every Thursday night and, even though I'm not a huge fan of the genre, I could imagine it being a splendid night sat out under the grand buildings.

I'll have to round up some friends and return on a Thursday evening at some point this summer.

There are a lot of trendy shops

Walking back up from The Pantiles, I took a moment every now and again for a spot of window shopping.

I was attracted to all sorts of shops selling super-health foods and odd knickknacks you would never find a need for in your life.

It all seemed very trendy and, ultimately, expensive.

Nobody seems to be in a rush

The Pantiles was quiet in the day
The Pantiles was quiet in the day

What I had noticed in Calverley Park regarding the pace of life seemed to translate to the town centre too.

I'm sure the time of day had a part to play, but everyone moved around at a snail's pace.

Nobody in Tunbridge Wells seems to be in a rush, which surprised me given the area's reputation as a commuter town.

Whilst it perhaps made it seem a little low on atmosphere, it was nice to see everyone taking their time

There's not a gypsy tart in sight


I enjoyed my rather ugly concoction but the KentLive readers were all too quick to let me know that I'd burnt their treasured treat.

Since the dessert was so well known and loved in Kent, I thought I must be able to source a slice and taste the real thing when in Tunbridge Wells.
Much to my disappointment, the handful of cafes and cake shops I found didn't have anything to offer me.

A couple of waitresses even looked at me with confused faces with no idea what a Gypsy Tart even was.

I'm not convinced it's as great as people have told me...

Everyone dressed to impress

Walking around in my denim shorts and white t-shirt, I felt very underdressed in Tunbridge Wells.

As its inhabitants strolled around at a snail's pace, it gave me plenty of time to admire what everyone was wearing.

Whether it be British enthusiasm for the sun or a well-off population, the people of Tunbridge Wells had dressed to impress.

The town gets very hot

I struggle in the sun on the best of days and so far this year I've been managing with the refreshing breeze of the Sussex coast.

The heat in Tunbridge Wells was a new level.

As much as the town does offer many green spaces, the town centre's concrete and hills intensified the furnace-like conditions.

It was a sweaty struggle to trudge back up the hill from The Pantiles and the walk needed breaking up with an ice lolly halfway for my own survival.

The action isn't around The Pantiles

The streets outside Royal Victoria Place
The streets outside Royal Victoria Place

Just as I decided that Tunbridge Wells was lovely, but a little quiet in the day, I ended up at the top end of town.

My final stop of the day was near Royal Victoria Place and this is where the hubbub of the town was.

It was much busier than The Pantiles with locals moving in and out of shops.

The Pantiles might be the picturesque tourist attraction, but it seemed to me that the action was elsewhere.

Tunbridge Wells could have the poshest Wetherspoons I've ever seen

The Opera House Wetherspoons in Tunbridge Wells
The Opera House Wetherspoons in Tunbridge Wells

I walked past what looked like a theatre and did a double-take when I saw the selection of beers being offered outside.

What a cool pub, I thought.

Then, I realised it was a Wetherspoons and couldn't believe my eyes.

I've frequented a number of 'spoons over the years but never had I seen so grand an entrance as the one in Tunbridge Wells.

Love them or hate them, there's no denying Tunbridge Wells' Opera House is a fantastic structure.