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My boyfriend swapped my nudes for pictures of other woman

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M horrified after my boyfriend swapped pictures of me in my underwear for explicit images of other women.

We’ve been together for two years. He’s 32 and I’m 30.

I don’t want to be with him now, but I can’t afford a place on my own
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I don’t want to be with him now, but I can’t afford a place on my own

We met through a support group for mental health. I thought I could trust him given we have a lot of the same issues.

I saw some messages from a girl on his phone and some pictures too.

I confronted him and he broke down saying it was a mistake and he’d block her.

But now I can’t trust him. I’ve been checking his phone daily.

Then I saw a pop-up from this strange app. As soon as I went into it, there were pictures I’d sent to him privately.

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I know how these sites work and I’ve seen what he’s got in return.

I don’t want to be with him now, but I can’t afford a place on my own and neither can he. I just feel numb.

DEIDRE SAYS: He’s crossed a very big line and it’s entirely understandable you want to finish with him.

By sharing sexual images of you without your consent he has broken the law.

Talk to revengepornhelpline.org.uk (0345 6000 459) which offers free advice for victims over the age of 18.

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